joceannora ([personal profile] joceannora) wrote2011-07-23 02:37 pm

Very Sad News


I'm posting this publicly so that those who see my journal can pass this information on to others on his flist.

I have very sad news. Yesterday afternoon as [livejournal.com profile] blackbyrd2 was arriving home from his deployment to Idaho, he was shot and killed.

He's gone. For the next few days I have many things to do and will be doing them with a profound sadness that will be with me for the rest of my life.

BB tended to describe himself as a crotchety old man, but he was a gentle man, very kind, considerate, and tolerant. He was intelligent, thoughtful and very well spoken. He loved me as much as I love him and will for the rest of my life. He was my best friend.

I'll miss him very much and will always remember our last kiss over 2 months ago.

There's more, that all you voracious Googlers already know. It was Son_Icran. I don't know yet what kind of mental break he experienced and won't be able to see him till after Monday. But it was my son, who stepped outside and fired several shots before BB could get out of the airport shuttle. Yes, I'm devastated. Everything I love in my world is gone. Repost at will.

[identity profile] nolawitch.livejournal.com 2011-07-23 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
You poor thing! You have my deepest sympathy. He was a wonderful guy in writing. I am so sorry for your loss and share in the sadness.

[identity profile] ms-issicran.livejournal.com 2011-08-07 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you S. I appreciate your kindness.

[identity profile] opakele.livejournal.com 2011-07-24 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I am stunned speechless and so sad.

Please keep us updated when you can. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[identity profile] saminz.livejournal.com 2011-07-24 10:10 am (UTC)(link)
This is.... No words.

Wish I could be with you right now.

I am absolutely convinced that he such was a wonderful, generous, gentle and smart person...

You know where I am if you want to "talk".
Will be thinking of you.
ajollypyruvate: (Saying good-bye)

[personal profile] ajollypyruvate 2011-07-24 04:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry.

{{{ms-issicran}}}

[identity profile] naruki-oni.livejournal.com 2011-07-25 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I am so very sorry for your loss. You guys have always been in my heart, and I will miss him.

Re: {{{ms-issicran}}}

[identity profile] ms-issicran.livejournal.com 2011-08-07 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you J. We had giggled recently while remembering your choice of name for baby M. Always keep your sense of humor.

Re: {{{ms-issicran}}}

[identity profile] voxwoman.livejournal.com 2011-08-12 04:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't remember if I told you already how sad I have been over this. My most sincere condolences go out to you.

[identity profile] slamlander.livejournal.com 2011-08-17 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
I just found out and I am so sad :(
{{{lj user="ms_issicran"}}}

BB and I had our arguments but he always had my respect.

[identity profile] ellyssian.livejournal.com 2011-08-17 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
It's been a little more than ten years since BB entered the first comment in my diary over on UF...

I'm just...

He will be missed.

My condolences to you.

My deapest condolences

[identity profile] salegamine.livejournal.com 2011-08-17 03:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sorry, I don't have any other words.
:(

We will by a bottle of good whisky and toast his memory on the 19th.